#Where Do You Belong?

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Welcome to the Malkan Show podcast. I am Meghna Malkan.

Thanks so much for joining me today on this episode of the podcast  I know your time is valuable and I'm really happy that you're listening to me today.

I have become with this podcast because after being coached by the world's best I wanted to share with you guys.

What success habits, success tools, and Ques. And what really helped me get into higher levels of performance at work have a great relationship with my spouse and kids and bond really helps me stay focused and motivated all the time.

So guys Let's dive into the next episode.

How often it is to cringe at the realization people in your life people you have surrounded they are weak and belong to the depressed category. How often do you get stuck with the realization? The fact is guys the awareness of this thing that’s the key to the solution once you become aware things do not remain the same.

The problem is most of us are not even aware that we belong to that moan and groan, crowd until we really stop moaning and groaning. And but when we become aware of these automatically start to take care of ourselves, and how does that happen? It's quite simple. If you begin to grow you will notice that you no longer want to be around.

You don't want to piss in people around you.

As the positivity, it's more with negativity that is contagious and you will walk away feeling lousy and depressed and stuff after having spent time in the company of that negative person how many times and how often have all of us experience this you don't bump up and feeling great about something new that you've learned and your achievement that you've had a new breakthrough that you've had and certainly we've been whining friend of yours who cannot just stop Tripping about something some spotting going wrong in their life.

And then by the time I finish a meeting and back home, you don't down your dream and you forget of the Breakthrough that you just had that day.

How often does that happen, of course, positiveness is contagious as well, and spending time with a positive person makes you feel as though you can really have those things and you can fly. Soon you become Discerning because energy as energy an important characteristic of energy is that it is tangible.

And as you become more and more aware you feel if a person is positive or negative and you'll automatically be drawn to that more positive part of the person the people in your life are a good indicator of where you are operating on an emotional level.

Like attracts like that's a principle and adds you begin to change you will automatically draw and you'll be drawn to a different kind of person different kind of crown on together.

You may not realize this but it happens but slowly and gradually you feel that you're some kind of Genius is changing when this is usually discussed with people the usual question people come and ask is that all it's very good about me, but what do I do?

Old friends with those predators and I cannot let go of that many of guilt playing it at the thought of leaving his own crowd behind which sounds unstable of course guilt guys is totally unwarranted think about it in the first place. You will see assume you are assuming that your old friends are not strong enough to carry on. Don't do that. This is very presumptuous and more than a bit. You don't beat it into them.

You see to it that I started drawing from the line between they find new friends if they're Negative. They find more negative people to grow up with that moan and groan Society be around for many years to come and your friends will always find a welcome home their energy me.

They do it themselves and they may join you on your journey towards that person was an action-based person and was that love this person that you now And that, of course, is in a relationship at the same time Gary the people wouldn't because it's important so that you will have all kinds of advanced. How long can you keep pulling those people with you and what?

Sense of what is doing something that makes you feel wonderful about yourself. So they really see want to go back to school or get that or whatever your friends will cheer you up with anything.

The new friends that you may just include all those people were farther along the journey that you are at the moment and then you see magic and fold in your lives. Because at the end of it, although it's a great feeling to be able to lead people to a better place. It is also a relief that you are being led by others who can show the way and we all like that feeling right?

Sometimes just to be led and you know and feeling that get the confidence feeling that you are being led by the right person ahead of you life becomes much more fun and less of a struggle if you don't have to buy any you're on your own so for change for some time.

Studio head down this is lighters or positive people. They've learned not to take themselves. So seriously, and there is a joy to around think for a moment just use it as a thing for a moment about this kind of people in your life how much you love being around these people one bit afraid of this kind of people is that they are concerned with something that is bigger than themselves their fears are greatly diminished and the incense that and then we sent ourselves as part.

Out-of-work bigger bowl. We don't feel that we are alone and people have the first time are aware of the true sense of purpose in our lives. So it's so incredibly important guys to your peace of mind and we have a sense of power to have that kind of support group who feels an end of power this importance of this can never be stressed. It is so vital to begin now to have that strong people group in your life.

And the form of an establishment was simply a group of friends were consciously in the process of the growing rule of growth again. It doesn't really make sense to worry about negative friends. It's more than likely that as soon as you stop agreeing with their demands.

They will either disappear from your life or they will choose to join him on the path to power and the path to love. So let's talk About the steps. How do you get started? They were all those people who've recently met and you really admire do something different for to find out you know, where they are getting contact with them right to them call them up and just tell them simply that you are impressed by them.

Just tell them in the first meeting itself. And then you would like to know them better than invite them to join him in before lunch or dinner.

According to the party that you Feet, I know this can be frightening at first, but there's always a first time for all of us when you do that, you know for the first time maybe your handshake. So maybe you feel awkward but nevertheless, go for it.

You may never know to your surprise the person that you choose for the first time in the new friend is equally thrilled to listen from you to hear from you right and that in time if your self-esteem is really imagined that what would she if eating?

Would be feeling the to be avoided, but on the contrary, she will be someone's excited. Right? So let's try to have that delightful time together try to initiate relationships because as you do that, it becomes easier for you.

It will become easier for you one after the other and then you get comfortable. The point is that you must make the effort the point is that you have to take the first step. So many people just sit back. And wait when I asked them and they said there are waiting.

I'm waiting for the other person to call me. No wonder these guys are so much. No wonder these guys are alone in their knives. Nothing is going to come to you especially the beginning. You have to go out and create the kind of support system that you want which is so essential for your growth and power even if cause it seems frightening to do it. Anyway, even if you get a few rejections keep dialing anyway,

This is gonna be one good if it is to get just one with response out of 10, isn't that wonderful guys, at least you got one read response. Remember that all these people who are flattered by your interest even if for their own reasons, they reject your reputation.

You would have made them feel good simply by calling be of course that's aimed at being discriminating who you're calling pick someone who you perceive as being a few steps ahead of you in personal growth. And this is going to be great for your self-confidence when we truly found out that you are way ahead of them in many areas in that case.

You are there's a support system in that area. We do not greatly underestimate ourselves guys, and this happened so frequently now the second step is where do you find these people the most common place to find this kind of people that self-improvement classes or workshops or seminars there?

One poultry and the path of personal growth you'll have much more in common and so much likely that you'll find more openness with such people. So guys two simple steps.

The first one is just to take than one move forward and the second one is the probability of where do you find the new find them and place where really self-worth happens to stick these two steps and see your life Propel you towards a New Direction in the way.

A that you never imagined being I wish you all the best.

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October 20th, 2020   #The Malkan Show