#How To Turn Devils Into Angels

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Hello and welcome to the malkan Show podcast. I am Meghna Malkan. Thanks so much for joining me today on this episode of the podcast. I know your time is valuable and I'm really happy that you're listening to me today.

We're all part of multiple relationships and relationships sometimes hurt. It is extremely natural to experience some kind of pain or suffering or hurt when you're into some relationship.

Usually, what we do is we feel hurt and we Retreat have you ever tried to spin the situation in your favor when you spill something like this, you have always fun it aged yourself. Now, how about spinning it for yourself?

Instead of believing people you believe have heard you how about giving them a credit some kind of credit for helping you.  maybe realizing that they are not Devils but Angels might help you let your perspective. There are two ways to turn Devils into Angels first acknowledge things about them that you genuinely appreciate.

Maybe that uncle of yours that you hate took you shopping when you were a kid. Maybe mom against whom you have grudges for she makes your favorite sweet on your birthday. Maybe your ex-wife is a great mother to your children.

There must be something you sincerely appreciate about that person shift your attention from the mean and nasty things they have said or done to the kind and helpful things they have said or done even if there are just a few or even only one.

You have defined this person by the inequities you can just as easily actually more easily Define them by their redeeming qualities.

Remember, it's your life. It's your reel. You can change it anytime perhaps maybe you still arguing that that person who has hurt you in that particular relationship has no redeeming qualities whatsoever. She's an evil incarnate, you know.

Someone was conceived with the Devil Himself the poster child dark side of the force or someone who is dis time to wreak havoc and horror in the lives of everyone he or she touches, a nasty of which has never walked the Earth remember that so let's say even if you know, all of this is true, for instance, the person who troubles you is a no-good cheating or lying person now, here's the second devil Transformer.

Consider this how has this person helped you to grow. what spiritual muscles have you developed that you would not have built if this person had been nicer to you think about it? Have you learned to hold your power and self-esteem in the presence of attempted insult that this person has thrown upon you?

Do you now speak your truth more quickly and directly? Are you now asking for what you want instead of passively differing it?

Are you setting healthy boundaries? Have you deepened in your patience and your compassion just because of the trying things that that person has given you?

 do you make more self-honoring choices? Think about it guys there are many benefits.

You might have gained or still my beginning from someone who challenges you.

Consider the man in your life who's giving you that pain and is making you learn the lesson of patience and the blessings of Tolerance. Everyone helps us some help us by being kind and some help us by acting unkindly so that we may choose kindness no matter what they do.

You have a soul contract with your adversary to help you advance spiritually. So, whatever is happening is happening for your Advanced only.

Maybe he's a dear friend who has agreed to wear the costume of the enemy to motivate you to reclaim your power. Have you thought about that, the most brilliant actors take the path of creepiest characters and after the play when they remove their costumes, they're quite often nice people entirely unlike the Persona that they wore for their performance?

So wouldn't it help if you pay less attention to what they are acting on stage and sit with them, you know as if you're sitting with an actor in the dressing room after the show sipping a glass of coffee together and laughing about the whole night's performance?

How would that help?  recognize their true friendship and support and being totally aware of how things are working out and their friendship and support is being expressed through their talent to play that convincing bad guy or bad lady in your life.

Remember that, and guys once you have this mindset shift, you will never again blame others for your losses.

That's a big shift coming your way. You will always gain people by honoring them for their contribution to your life. Remember the lessons that we learn from the hurt are the biggest then you can ever learn in our advancement towards spiritual progress. Yes, this reversal of perspective.

What we just spoke about is the most helpful shift in perception. You will never achieve.

April 16th, 2020   #The Malkan Show